Alright, let’s be real, weddings are a whirlwind. One minute you’re sipping on champagne and getting pampered, the next you’re running late, trying to squeeze in photos and a cheeky snack (because hangry brides are NOT it). We rounded up some freshly married couples to spill the biggest wedding day regrets they’ve got. Spoiler: it’s the kind of real talk every couple needs to hear.
“Why Didn’t We Chill After Hair & Makeup?!”
A classic mistake. More than one couple wished they’d started hair and makeup that little bit earlier to have some time to just breathe, eat something (even if it’s a cheeky sandwich), and get those dreamy photos without the stress sweat. Pro tip? Add some extra time into the run sheet so you can actually enjoy the morning before the chaos kicks off. Your future self will thank you, and so will your photographer.
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More Videos, Please!
Turns out, not hiring a content creator or videographer is a major “oops” on the wedding day. Sure, your photographer is snapping all the pretty pics, but having someone dedicated to capturing the vibe, the laughs, the dance-floor shenanigans, and all the little moments? Absolutely priceless.
Comfort is Key
Those gorgeous but toe-crushing heels? Many couples say they wish they’d packed a comfy backup pair so they could keep dancing all night without hobbling to the bar. And speaking of second looks, a fun reception party dress is a game changer. It’s your chance to shake things up, feel comfy, and hit the dance floor in style.
Morning Photos You’ll Actually Love
A few newlyweds wished they’d thought about those cute matching pyjamas for the bridal party. Not only do they make your getting-ready pics look super cohesive, but they’re also a fun little keepsake your besties will wear long after the big day.
Weather-Proof Your Pics
Rain on your wedding day? Some might call it good luck. Others call it a photo opp. The biggest regret? Not grabbing clear umbrellas so couples could still get those dreamy outdoor snaps instead of hiding inside. Embrace it, dance in it, and keep those memories sparkling with the right umbrellas.
Don’t Miss Your Own Party!
With all the craziness, some couples realised too late that they didn’t make time to actually enjoy cocktail hour with their guests. It’s your party, so why miss out on the hugs, cheeky drinks, and all the fun? And while we’re at it, make sure to sneak away together for a quiet moment to soak it all in. Trust us, it’ll be one of your fave memories.
Guest List Drama and Bridal Party Chaos
Big bridal party? Massive guest list? Sometimes more isn’t merrier. Lots of couples shared they invited people out of obligation instead of focusing on who they truly wanted there. The takeaway? Keep it tight, keep it real, and invite the people who genuinely make your heart happy.
DIY Overload
Pinterest boards can be inspiring but trying to DIY every little thing to save cash can lead to serious stress and burnout. Many couples admitted they spent way too much time hot-gluing or crafting when they could have been relaxing, enjoying time with loved ones, or just soaking up the excitement. Choose your DIY projects wisely, and don’t be afraid to call in the pros when you need them.
Eat the Cake (and Everything Else)
So many couples confessed they barely touched their food or cake on the big day. After months of menu tastings and cake trials, it’s tragic to skip the actual feast. Make it a priority to sit down, have a proper bite, and enjoy all the deliciousness you worked so hard to plan.
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Don’t Skip the Hair & Makeup Trial
Some newlyweds shared they skipped a hair or makeup trial to save money or time and majorly regretted it. A trial helps you avoid unexpected surprises and ensures you feel like the best version of yourself on the day. Trust us, it’s worth every cent for that peace of mind (and those flawless photos).
Don’t Forget the Little Details
Did someone forget to get the ring boxes out for the photographer? Yep. No confetti for that iconic exit shot? Guilty. The little things might not seem big, but they make all the difference in your photos and memories. Make a list, check it twice, and delegate to a bridesmaid or planner on the day so nothing gets missed.
The takeaway? Weddings are joyful chaos. No one’s perfect, but a little insider wisdom from those who’ve been there can save you a few headaches and maybe a pair of sore feet.
So whether it’s packing comfy shoes, booking that epic videographer, remembering to eat the cake, or finally booking that hair trial, take these real newlywed gems to heart. Your wedding day should be fun, fabulous, and totally yours.
