If you’re planning your wedding and wondering what’s the best month to get married? – here’s the honest answer.
There isn’t one.
There’s no weather-proof month, no guaranteed perfect date, and no season that comes without its own considerations. And honestly? That’s not a bad thing. It’s simply a reminder to plan with the weather, not against it – and to feel confident knowing you’re prepared for whatever the day brings.
Because the most relaxed weddings aren’t the ones with flawless forecasts. They’re the ones where couples have thought ahead.
Every Season Has Its Own Pros
Spring brings fresh blooms and soft light, but can also mean wind.
Summer offers long days and golden sunsets, alongside real heat that needs to be planned for.
Autumn is loved for its mild temperatures and beautiful light, though evenings can cool quickly.
Winter might be cooler, but it’s often more stable weather-wise, making it a quietly underrated option for outdoor ceremonies.
Every month has its magic. The key is understanding what that season typically brings and planning accordingly.
Even if you choose your date based on historical weather data or the months with the lowest likelihood of rain, it’s worth remembering that weather can change quickly. One day can be wet, the next can be clear and perfect. Forecasts aren’t guarantees – which is why being prepared will always matter more than choosing the “right” month.
Plan for Flexibility, Not Perfection
One of the smartest things you can do when choosing your venue is ask about wet-weather options. Walk through what moving indoors would look like, and ask yourselves if you’d still love the space if plans shifted slightly.
This is where the venue really matters. Beautiful indoor spaces, covered areas, or a backup ceremony option you genuinely love can take so much pressure off choosing a date. When your Plan B still feels just as special, the month almost becomes secondary.
If the answer is yes, you’re setting yourselves up for a much calmer day.
Having a Plan B doesn’t mean you expect something to go wrong – it just means you’ve removed the stress if it does.
Clear Umbrellas Are Always Worth Having
Even if you end up using your backup option for the ceremony, clear umbrellas are one of those small details that almost always come in handy. They allow you to embrace the weather rather than hide from it – keeping photos light, romantic and uninterrupted.
They’re also practical for guests moving between spaces, and they won’t distract from outfits or styling. Think of them as quiet insurance for your day – useful, unobtrusive, and often a lifesaver for outdoor photos.
Heat Deserves Just as Much Thought as Rain
Heat is often overlooked, but it can have a bigger impact on your day than a few drops of rain. Shade, airflow and hydration matter for everyone involved – you, your guests and your suppliers.
Handheld fans, parasols and plenty of water are simple additions that make a big difference, regardless of the season.
Don’t Forget About Wind
Wind is the quiet wildcard. From hair to florals and ceremony styling, a few elements may need adjusting on the day and that’s completely normal. Trust your supplier team to adapt as needed; they’re experienced in making things work beautifully, even when conditions change.
So, What Is the Best Month to Get Married?
It’s the one that works for your vision, your priorities, your people, and the space you’ve chosen to celebrate in.
Choose a date you love. Prepare for the season you’re in. Let go of the idea of “perfect conditions”.
When you plan with intention and flexibility, nothing feels like a compromise – it simply feels like your day
PHOTOGRAPHER CREDITS
Benjamin Wylde
Tegan Murray
Folk Lane Photo
Sarbo Studio
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Meadow Lane Visuals
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Pepper June
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Lost in Love Photography
